What an awesome show! Super packed!
And even more awesome was the super humbling moment I had when I tried to interact with a couple who were clearly discussing my photo. It was a couple - man and a woman, they were pointing at my photo and talking to each other, I was about a foot behind them, but it was so loud, I couldn’t hear what they were saying. So, I politely intruded, “Excuse me”, I said. “That’s my photograph, did you have questions? I’d be happy to talk with you about it.” The woman turned and smiled slightly, she said, “Well, we were just saying that we couldn’t see it because it’s so dark!” I almost bust out laughing!
Ha! There went my fantasy of having a conversation about My Art! Oh, the vanity!
“That’s a true statement.” I said. “It is very dark.” I smiled.
I asked her, “Do you want to know what it’s about?” She said, “Sure, well, I can see the car…” I took this as her Yes. I said, “It’s about the progression of the relationship between a man and a woman through five stages or as I call them; The Illusions; Longing, Violence, Safety, Love and Freedom.”
"Ohhh….” she said nodding. She asked me where it was taken.
To me, this is the least interesting component, the work isn’t about the location or the landscape. I explained I lived in Phoenix, AZ and most of the images in the series were made at South Mountain Park, but so what? I feel this information is irrelevant. But, I get it.
I know that lots of people won’t or can’t find my work compelling or understandable. And I also know that I ambushed her into this conversation. And I totally understand that many people want/need something concrete to hang on to when they look at any art, they want it to make sense in the way that their world makes sense. She was trying to make sense of my work in the only way she knows how, I didn’t fault her for that.
After she walked away, I did laugh - at my own hubris. My desire to connect with people over my art is how I want to communicate with the world, I also get it that this doesn’t make sense to everyone. I felt inspired by the show, seeing other photographers pursue their unique visions and executing it through photography, just like I am.
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Los Angeles Center of Photography Creative Portrait Exhibit December 15, 2018 - February 1, 2019 Gallery images here. And Virtual Gallery here.